Two days ago, my slaveboy offered the type of submission I love most: voluntary service.
Sure, most submissive men would prefer to be actively dominated ("On your knees, worm!") but as a domme, it thrills me to know my slave is my slave when I'm not even there. It's romantic. It demonstrates devotion. Most of all, it arouses me. So pay attention, boys - here's how to wow your woman.
This weekend my boy and I spent a long and lovely vacation together. We booked a hotel for the weekend and spent hot days out in the summer sun. One night, I returned to the hotel bathroom to freshen up before bed, and discovered a dab of toothpaste on my toothbrush. My boy had put it there while brushing his own teeth. It was a thoughtful little touch intended to make my life easier.
Understand, I don't need toothpaste added to my toothbrush. I'm an adult. I can do this myself. It takes me less than 10 seconds. It would never occur to me to assign this task to my boy. But he took it upon himself.
When I emerged from the bathroom, I gave my boy the lavish praise he was hoping for. I wanted him to understand how much I appreciated this sweet little touch in my day.
And, guess what? In the morning, the toothpaste was there again.
This is romance. Flowers, chocolates, all of those cliches - they're just this dab of toothpaste, a moment taken out of the day to say "I'm thinking of you."
I've read somewhere about another femdom couple that did something similar with toilet paper. The boy folded the ends of the roll like a hotel service to top off his bathroom cleaning session, and it tickled the domme so much that he's kept up the practice ever since. It's become a running joke. I'm sure this couple loves each other very much - and they are reminded every time this tiny, two-second event takes place.
You don't have to keep surprises confined to your bathroom, of course. Treat your domme to thoughtful touches anywhere. Pack her lunch. Shine her shoes. Organize a drawer. Give something extra. Any little thing that makes her life easier will earn you points - and make you a treasured, lucky boy.